Monday, December 5, 2016

Elder May - November Email



This Elder is truly a light in our home.  His tireless missionary service is second to none and it is such an amazing experience to watch all his service and missionary work from our own home.  We sure love Elder Bryson and are so proud of him. 

Hello Everyone!

I feel like every month is like the greatest month of my mission. I was able to create friendships this month and be able to go to side activities where I'm still serving but it isn't a set list on what I'm doing every day. I feel like I'm becoming more helpful in people coming back to Christ either through inactivity as I am a ward missionary, or through my example and answers questions for people at Save the Family, or even across at the Spirit World through the veil as I go various different Elders each week through endowment sessions. I feel like I'm evolving each month and I'm just working myself harder and becoming busier, week by week. 

As a ward missionary, I work with the mission leader, Brother Erickson and him and I do the temple prep classes and do splits with the missionaries. We will go to their homes for temple prep and teach them kind of the quick basics of the gospel. It is tremendous to see the progress we can make. I went with one Elder and the family we went to, the Donn family, Tanner and Hannah, were super inactive from the church. Then that next Sunday, we saw their whole family sitting in sacrament meeting and that was a beautiful moment for me. Then, Bro Erickson and I went over there for a few weeks and taught them through temple prep and now they're being endowed this month! I am able to see change happen, including changes of hearts. I am able to help people grow. 
Elder May - Save The Family

Save the Family had their Thanksgiving Delivery Days back on the Monday before Thanksgiving. As
a quick summary, we have sponsors call us and tell us that they want to create a Thanksgiving basket of items for one of our homeless families that is in our client roster. I was able to be a part of the Delivery Days by greeting sponsors and helping deliver the baskets to various locations across Arizona. In total we had about 200 different sponsors asking us to donate and 300+ families that were blessed to have their own Thanksgiving this year. I was able to be part of one delivery and as we were delivering them across the street, kids and families would be so excited to see us and asking if they could take it from us. I was fine with it but apparently there were rules about it so it was good to learn!

Last night, Elder Hayward, Haws, Ferrell, Zollinger and I went to the Gilbert Temple and did an endowment session together. It's fun to go to the same appointments every week but it's weird how much more fun it is when you plan the same exact thing but go as a group of friends instead of being all about business. It's crazy how little a change that is but how big of a change the outcome can become. It amazes me how I have become good friends with each and every one of them. I'm glad to have found them in my mission and getting to know them. I'm grateful to not only have companions but be able to create my own mission friendships, outside of companionships. I've been able to learn so much about the four Elders listed above and I'm so grateful for their unconditional love that I can feel from them for me. 

For this month, I made a goal to at least make it to the temple twice in the month and to further increase my hope for the Atonement of Jesus Christ. I can happily say that my hope for Him has increased tremendously as I have gone not only twice but at least four times, twice in a week! I'm so grateful to know of his plan for me and I'm grateful that he has planted such wonderful people, not only wonderful Elders but also wonderful people outside of their missions, to help strengthen and lift me up. I'm grateful that I am able to further continue my journey as I help others come unto Christ. 

I love you all and hope you all had a wonderful November!

Sincerely,
Elder Bryson May

Sunday, October 30, 2016

Elder May: October Email

I love to read Elder May's emails because even though he is at home we  don't always here the experiences he is having. We think he is simply amazing and we are so proud of our Elder- enjoy!!
Wow this was a crazy month. I had weddings, I went to my first Mission activity and met all of the Elders and Sisters of our wonderful mission, and I went for the first time to the temple with Elder Hayward and Elder Haws. Overall, it was a long month but it was so rewarding!

So the weddings. The first one was of my brother Hunter and his new wife, Alexiss. I was able to take part of her endowment session and even be in the sealing room with them and it's cool how you can have fun in the temple by doing family names and being with other people while also giving people a chance to receive the gospel in the spirit world. I then went to celestial room and prayed there for comfort and the ability to become more humble throughout my mission and letting the Lord's Atonement guide me and the Spirit was so strong with me after those endowment sessions that I know them to be true.

I will touch on my experience with Elder Hayward and Elder Haws. Probably not just touch because it was incredible but I assume you know what I mean. The entire experience was amazing. Elder Haws is so kind and caring and selfless. He would tell Dayton everything that he was about to tell me and keep him in the loop of what was happening. As I was in that session, we sat in the back and they gave us a screen so it was easier for Dayton to watch but I had noticed that I was watching off the smaller, closer screen with the subtitles more than I was watching on the big screen. It is now weird for me to watch it without subtitles being shown!

The longer throughout the session, I started to care more and more for Dayton as I could feel his spirit soften my heart and pierce my soul. Elder Haws told me that sometimes Elder Hayward couldn't control his left hand and every time Elder Hayward couldn't do so, Elder Haws would gently grab his left hand and just hold it on Dayton's leg and to me that was just another Christ-like attribute that Elder Haws was showing to Elder Hayward. The ordinance workers at one point asked Elder Haws and Hayward if Dayton would like to be in the circle and when Dayton blinked, Elder Haws could not hold his excitement in because it was going to be Dayton's first time doing so and it was not only incredible for that but as soon as Dayton went into that circle, his hand stopped shaking and he had control of it for the entire duration of the circle and then as soon as they were done, his hand started to move again. It was just amazing incredible Dayton's spirit is. I want to come and go to more of those with both Elder Haws and Elder Hayward because they are already such amazing example of Christ to me. They carry the Spirit with them wherever they go and I want to be around them more for that Spirit that they hold. They have made me want to change and become not just a better missionary but be a better friend, a better person and just a better example of Christ.

Lastly, I think I am supposed to touch on my strengths and my weaknesses. I guess for my strengths, I have become better acquainted and loved by those at Save the Family. I am helping them with any task at this point and they are becoming more and more aware of me here. I feel like I am developing more traits of love as well as more ways to feel the Spirit, especially while listening to instrumental music and General Conference talks to and from my commute to work. I would say that my weaknesses could be having low self-esteem or low self-worth maybe, as well as trying to increase being humble and loving to everyone me, just being able to let the Spirit enter my heart better but I will try to make those my strengths by changing my perspectives in the upcoming times of my mission. I am excited to keep working with save the Family and continuing to go with both Elder Haws and Elder Hayward in the temple!

Thank you for all your paraders and support - I love you all!!

Thursday, September 29, 2016

Elder May: 3-Month Mark (September Monthly Email)



Hello again! 

I feel like a bit has happened in so little time! I have been able to document different stories and different things I have been able to do at my service assignment that I wouldn't have found anywhere else. I am learning more about my new companion and we are scheduling a time to meet up together, to actually meet face to face and to get to know one another better and become better instruments for the Lord. I have been able to pray to Him and feel my own comfort from Him personally. I have been able to trust in Him more and be able to feel His Spirit as I wear my badge every day that I come to work and to serve.

I was looking back and my very first day here at Save the Family was on June 30, 2016. I remember because I got an email that day saying that someone named Kaitlyn had brought the most delicious cookies for all to enjoy and that happened on my first day because I was still wearing a white shirt and tie until my supervisor had gotten approval to change it to what it is now. With June 30 on my mind, I learned that September 30, my 3-month mark is this Friday. Time flies by so fast! The more I help people, the faster that time flies. When I focus on myself, time slows way down. I started out just scanning files and having to wear an enormous nametag so everyone could learn who I was and I have gone to manning the front desk "the front lines as they call it" and I have been able to learn how to do background checks and I have slowly begun to help more people around the foundation like helping with storage issues or with being able to fill in for people when they are away and answering their voicemail calls and helping with insurance packets and really just helping anyone out in any way that I can. I like to tell everyone here that I am Laura's assistant but I am everyone's intern! It's funny and it lets them know that I am willing and ready to help anyone with anything that they may need!

I am ready to continue to serve. I have grown a desire to keep wanting to help the people at the Save the Family Foundation and the clients that we continue to receive. Through my service, I have been able to grow more in my testimony of my Heavenly Father. As I have helped clients here, I have become more grateful for the things I receive every day. I know that Christ lives and loves each one of us and the more I call out to Him, the more He wants and is ready to help me. He knows all of our struggles and our successes, even when we don't tell him and he knows when we will ask Him, we just have to do the asking for help in order to receive it, we can't just expect it just because He knows. I have come to love everyone with their different and unique talents that everyone can possess, I have become able to be good friends with anyone I come into contact with and I can put a smile on anyone's face that walks through our doors, asking for help and Christ wants to do the same but for us. We have to ask for help in order for Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father to make our lives happy. I know that God lives and loves each and every one of us and I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Love,
Elder May

Thursday, September 22, 2016

Elder May: New Companionship



Elder Bryson is really thriving in his new mission and is loving serving the people that he comes in contact with at Save The Family – not only those in need but also those that work there.  Love him so much and oh, so proud of him.  Enjoy!

Hey everyone! Some news for me is that I am now in my own zone! I am now a part of the Scottsdale-Tempe-Mesa Zone! Because they have service missionaries everywhere around the state, that is what our new zone is being called. I also have my own companion! His name is Eric Davis, he's 22 and his service mission is going to be at Resurrection Street Ministries. It's a food bank/thrift store to help families in need. He's into sports, like football and basketball, he is in school and has a job and is big into working out. We have kind of different interests but I already know that he is a great guy and I can't wait to meet him soon. They gave us companions so that even if we don't spend every minute together or even have the same mission, we can have someone to talk to, gain friendships and life skills together and to have a higher standard of accountability with each other. His mission, I looked it up and it is only 4 minutes away from Save the Family, or my mission. They are really trying to make it like a regular proselyting mission except we don't have to be dying in the heat! I am really excited to be working with my companion and I am excited to keep working with the Save the Family Foundation. I know that this mission was here just for me and I am honored and ready to continue serving them and continue serving the Lord.

I appreciate all the continued love and prayers on my behalf.  Please keep saying them. 

Love,
Elder May